The answer to Andrew’s question

The answer to Andrew’s question

It’s my first mail from Andrew who is asking where to go for his date.

First of all, let me agree with you on your idea about going to the movies. I wouldn’t advise on that either.

There are two very important things to think about regarding this date: first of all, the day must be about her. Second: it must be an interactive date and it must reflect your personality which by what you have written is really cool.

I don’t expect you to know where she wished to go in grade school and never got the chance, but if you do, that’s a good starting point.

If not, I would suggest an amusement park since they always tend to be fun and relaxing. As a plus, you know those booths where you can win teddy bears and stuff: You could try to win her something in exchange for a kiss. And certainly she will hold you tight on most of the rides. I guess you got the idea.

If this does not work for you, maybe you could take her to shoot some pool. Make it so the winner of every game gets a prize(you think of what that may be). After you’re done with that, you could take her to a coffee place where to talk and get to catch op a little bit. I’m sure she’s dying to tell you about what has happened in the last few years. And I know you want to listen :)
How are you on your skates? If you’re up for it, you could take her skating. This would really show her your athletic side: there aren’t many girls who don’t like a guy who can skate.

Feeling romantic? Got a lake near by? Invite her on a boat ride: just you and her in the middle of a lake. That is presuming she’s the romantic type too.

Try the ZOO. Even if it sounds like the place kids go, she might just love it.

Look, you’re not supposed to have a perfect first date. This rarely happens. In order for it to be perfect you should know what she really likes and dislikes. If you don’t, it’s important to show her that you’ve tried to come up with something nice and most important you must make her feel special by listening to what she says, looking her in the eyes, turning off your cell phone. To sum it up: that afternoon you’re going out on a date must be all about her.

And let me know how it went.

2 Responses to “The answer to Andrew’s question”

  1. Ok. The lake ideea is good but I’ll use that later on maybe :D. The amusement park and pool are more at home for me at least for me and for the time beeing :). Good advice all around (cell phone won’t really be a problem tough, I’m not really a “wanted man” ) . Guess I’ll see how it goes on saturday night and I’ll letcha know how it works out.

  2. I’m glad you liked the ideas. Hope all goes well and I wish you ghood luck.

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