How to: Get a first date
Picture this: it’s after midnight and you are in the club with your friends enjoying the music and the atmosphere when you see just across the room from you a beautiful woman looking at you quite interested. You look back at her and just as you decide to go and talk to her a strange thought comes to your mind: “she’s too good looking to be checking me out, she can’t be attracted to me” so you decide not to go to her and miss out on at least a fun conversation.
Well, in this article I am about to give you a few pointers in order for the above situation not to occur again.
The first thing you need to do is to take all the measures possible so that you feel good with yourself and confident. From now on when you decide to go out shopping for clothes don’t settle for anything less then what you absolutely adore. When buying anything to wear, don’t say to yourself: “this jacket is ok, it will do”. Buy the jacket that makes you say “perfect” when you put it on. This will make you feel more comfortable with the way you look. If you like your style, it will show and people around will like it too.
Go to the gym. This way you will feel good about the way your body looks, giving you confidence. Another plus is the fact that by working out the women around yo understand at a subconscious level that you are willing to put a lot of effort in obtaining what you desire. By doing this you will also be in a good shape which would put you, from this point of view, above about half of the people on this planet. Feeling better?
Apply the 10 second rule: when you see her don’t start to think about what to say or about what she will think of you but just go to her.This way you don’t get the time to think about the scenario of being rejected, therefor increasing your chances.
When you talk to her, don’t use pick up lines because she’s certainly heard them before. Be natural and start the conversation as normal as possible: ask her opinion on something or just introduce yourself. And one more thing: try to be funny.
The last thing: stop being afraid of rejection because when you go to talk to a woman, the worst thing that could happen is for her to refuse to engage in a conversation. Trust me, this is a simple NO: it’s not painful and it does not scar you for life. It does not even tell you that you are not her type. A NO only means it’s the wrong time or the wrong place. So go and talk to her. You have got nothing to lose.
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