1 Prepare for the date:

This means to try your best to look as good as you could, smell as nice as you could possibly and to get some clothes that look nice. It’s also important not to overdo it. You shouldn’t style your hair perfectly and do not use too much cologne/perfume. What is very important to remember is to o have a shower before and to wear some clean clothes.

2 Don’t think too much:

Before the date, try to keep busy so that you do not give your mind the opportunity to distort things or give birth to lots of ideas, complicating the situation. Actually, you should go to every date with an open mind and no actual expectations. You should just expect to go and have fun, not to find the love of your life.

3 Don’t look too available:

Even though you are on a date, you shouldn’t act like this is your last chance to find your soul mate. Instead, think of dating as another fun activity like going out with your friends or shooting pool. It’s all about enjoying yourself and feeling good.

4 Don’t compare:

One of the worst things you could do is compare new dates with the old ones. Think of this: there aren’t two people on this planet that are perfectly alike so there is no possibility to date two persons who are quite the same. And also there are no pluses and minuses. Dating is not math but just a way of getting to know new people. You are not looking for someone better than the ex but for someone new.

5 Take a break:

From time to time it’s a good idea to take a break from dating because every activity becomes tiring after some time. Don’t think of dating as a race so siting back and relaxing sometimes is actually a very good idea.

You aren’t desperate

First of all: DATING ONLINE IS NOT A SIGN OF DESPERATION it’s just a clear sign of the evolution of communication between people and also it’s quite normal to date online since everyone of us tends to have less and less time. The only people who consider dating online an unnatural thing are the ones who are not capable of adapting to recent times. Take you grandparents for example: do you think that they would have thought that text-messageing is normal when they were young? The truth is that everything around us evolves and so should we, and one step is to understand that online dating is a very natural thing to this generation.

You aren’t emotionally scared

Second: ONLINE DATING SITES ARE NOT FOR EMOTIONALLY SCARED PEOPLE but for a normal person just as you. Being on an online dating site does not mean that you have an emotional problem but that you just want to expand your emotional horizon. Maybe you’re tired of the same girls/guys you meet in the same clubs or the same girls/guys you see when going to school or work every day. Online dating helps you meet people you might not normally meet or ask out.

So now that we have established that online dating is a very natural thing let’s move on to the advice about doing it the right way:

Online Dating Secret #1: Don’t exagerate

Any kind of exageration is probably going to backfire so be careful when you make your description: don’t write you drive a Ferrari if you don’t (Need For Speed doesn’t count). Don’t say you are filthy rich and that you own a small island. This is not going to help you at all because most people are able to spot exagerations and also because when you say things that turn out not to be true, people tend (always) to be disappointed in you leading to zero dates.

Online Dating Secret #2: Don’t be too modest

Always stick to the truth: so if you’re the one who invented a method of preventing global warming claim it if it comes up in conversation. There is no logical reason not to do so. If you are responsible for something impressive just admit it as it will surely impress and this will win you points with the person you are communicating with. But be sure not to brag about it: talk about your achievements only if they come up in conversation.

Online Dating Secret #3: Read the description

Read the description of the person you are about to talk to because even though a few people write “bla bla bla” or pointless stuff, most people tend to write something personal in that description so by reading a few lines you will have a conversation subject and also know an extra thing about the person you are about to talk to.

Online Dating Secret #4: Don’t use macho talk

Don’t use macho openers! Maybe you think “Hey sexy, how about we hook up?” is a cool conversation starter but reality shows that this kind of opener is actually an interest killer and most of the time results in nothing.

Online Dating Secret #5: Write the way you talk

Write as you would normally talk to the person you are messageing and you’ll see that he/she will consider you an open and normal person that hasn’t and hidden interest and just wants a pleasurable talk. Ask a question about the description like: “It says in your description that you like skiing. What ski resort would you recommend me?” The point is to show that you have read the description and leave room for a response. Many times a simple “hi” might do the job. It’s not an exact science but showing that you took an interest in the description is probably going to get you a bonus point.

Online Dating Secret #6: Use more than one word

There’s no greater conversation killer than a short answer like: “yes” or “no”. Think about talking to someone who would answer to a question with a short answer? Would you like to talk to that person? Me neither.

Online Dating Secret #7: Keep it going

Keep the conversation going. You should try to make it go as smoothly as possible and by talking (online) you should try to find out as many things about the person you are talking to but in a natural friendly way: ask a question and when you get the answer build upon that or go on for another question. Go any way you wish as long as you don’t let the conversation fade: think of it as a flower you have to nurture to give enough sun and water it each day. Fuel the conversation every way you can.

Onlie Dating Secret #8: Be funny

This is a must because it’s statistically proven that funny people have the highest success ratio because it’s easy to break the ice with them and let’s be honest here: who doesn’t like to be around funny people?

Online Dating Secret #9: Go for a date

There’s nothing to lose in going out with a person you think you like. You have only to gain from this experience, trust me. You might wonder when it’s the right moment to ask the other one out: well, when you know a few things about each other and you are having fun talking to each other that’s certainly the right moment.

Now I’m going to give you a few tips about choosing your profile photo:

Profile photo Tip #1: No car

Don’t take a picture next to your car because the other person should be interested in who you are not what brand of vehicle you drive or how much money you have.

Profile photo Tip #2: No shirt off

Don’t take pictures with your shirt off because nobody wants to meet a person obsessed with his or her own body. That’s common sense.

Profile photo Tip # 3: Look Best

Try too look best in your profile photo. This is the last and most important thing so when taking the picture, wear some nice clothes, get a haircut and style your hear a bit. Trust me, this won’t hurt a bit but it will increase your chances.

I wish you lots of luck with your online dating. And if you would like to, let me know how it went.

Smile as much as you can

This is because the smile of a woman is irresistible. It’s her best weapon in the game of seduction. As a plus, one of the first things the man sees when looking at a woman is the face. And it’s expression is very important: a smiling woman makes the man want to go to her, to engage in conversation while an expressionless face seems to work exactly as the “beware, bad dog” sign.

Be sexy

And I’m not talking here about acting very provocative or biting your lower lip as a gesture of your passion but about feeling sexy. When you feel good about yourself, it shows. It’s just like an aura that everybody can detect. So in order to achieve this you must do all you feel you should in order to feel sexy: go to the gym, get new make-up, acquire new clothes, get a new perfume, go aerobics. Whatever gets you going is perfect.

Dress like a woman

Even though for years now equality between sexes exists, this does not mean that men and women should look alike. Equality is about social status and rights that men and women have but I don’t think that it should also be related to clothing. It’s much easier to attract a man while wearing a skirt, or a dress instead of a pair of trousers and a manly cut shirt. It’s well known that one of the most important senses for a man is the sight so he will be more attracted to what he can see. I don’t say that manly-type clothes on a woman do not work but the chance of success is increased by a feminine appearance.

Engage in conversation

I know it feels just great to know you are the object of desire but if you see something you like, would you expect for it to come to you or would you just go and get it. Instead of a timid glance to the man you like, why not go there and say “hi“. I guarantee two things: first of all, he will not think less of you and second he will really appreciate this change of turns. This takes me back to the equality discussion: women and men are regarded equally so why is it that it’s always men the ones that make the first step. So in this case, be equal, you take the lead.

1. Have breakfast or brunch out. It’s nice dating idea starting your day with your loved one, making you both happy. Talk about what plans you have for the day (maybe even re-unite in the evening) and build up from there.
2. Go for a walk in the park in a sunny afternoon and draw shapes in the sand, get an ice cream and a Kodak moment.
3. Go ice-skating and just hold hands.
4. Another great dating place is the Zoo, take lots of pictures of animals and the two of you, laugh a lot when the baboon starts yelling, see the lions and bears and make sure you kiss a lot.
5. Go bowling, make bets of who wins, who has the most highest scoring shots, who has the most lowest scoring shots and constantly raise the bid from one kiss to whatever you like.
6. Visit a museum, make funny comments about the exhibits and be sure to take your camera so you catch on film those nice moments and smiley faces.

   

7. For a cool dating place go to an amusement park, ride the roller-coaster, see yourself in those funny mirrors, eat some cotton candy, take a ride in the big wheel and don’t forget to take pics you can both enjoy at home.
8. Take your partner for a walk on the beach, even if you have to spend 3 hours getting there, trust me, it’s worth it. Walk along, draw a heart in the sand, have a water-fight, lay on the beach, talk and don’t forget to take a small shell as souvenir.
9. Dating idea #9 says you should go to the Circus, make fun of the clowns, admire the beautiful animals, buy yourself a balloon or a clown nose and try to figure out the magic acts.
10. Go to the theater, to a funny or dramatic play, wich one suits you the most.
11. Find out where you can rent a hot air balloon to fly and surprise your sweetie with a sky-high “I love you”.
12. For another great dating place go horse riding, make pictures, have fun and have a nice lunch after that drinking orange juice and eating home-made sandwitches.
13. Even if it’s not an original date idea, go to the movies and watch the film in each other’s arms.
14. For a cool dating place try the Water Park and have fun splashing each other, diving, swimming and kissing underwater.
15. Learn to shoot some pool and bet on who will finish first.
16. Go roller-skating in the park, stop for some water and maybe a juicy ice-cream and afterwards race to the exit.
17. This also isn’t the best dating idea but works just fine in lazy afternoons, so take your loved one out for a hot chocolate, a cocktail or a cup of coffee in the afternoon and walk home after that, holding hands.
18. Spend a night out, dancing to the music with your boo in a nice disco or club. If you can sleep together after that, you’ll find out why this works wonders.
19. Find out wich comedy club is funniest and invite your partner for a comic night out to laugh your hearts out in a fun dating place like this one.
20. Get tickets to a lake cruise and sit back and enjoy the water.
21. Make or buy a nice kite and learn to fly it in the park, a pretty common dating place that can be tailored by the activities you plan to suit you most original dating ideas.
22. Go mountain climbing.
23. Start playing some tennis, on a rented tennis court or in your back yard, the exercise will do you good.
24. Get together for a poker night changing the usual bids to more arousing stuff. The best part is you both win despite the other having better cards.

    

25. Go shopping for the both of you. You don’t need to buy expensive stuff, even a pair of metal earings or a dog-tag will do.
26. Gather some friends and go play some paintball, an ingenious dating idea. It would be fun and chalenging.
27. Go out and spend some time shooting darts. It’s a nice activity and if you win you can claim your prize for the evening.
28. Go to a local observatory and watch the moon and the stars. Go home and make a Star Ownership Diploma with your partner’s name on it. This way you’ll give your love his/her own star in the sky.
29. Arrange for a nice picnic in the park without forgetting soft blankets and the good food.
30. Rent a boat at a nearby lake, a very romantic dating place and paddle along while you take some pictures and play with the fish.
31. Go skiing and take your camera with you so you can save those funny moments when your partner doesn’t seem to get it right.
32. Go to a golf course and shoot some 9 holes. Or at least try to.
33. Plan a nice dinner at a fancy local restaurant. Tell your partner to be well dressed and prepaired for dinner as well as for “dessert”.
34. Have a day out just visiting antique stores and digging through the dust. Who knows, maybe you’ll find something interesting.
35. For another great dating idea as well as a unique date place learn how to drive a kart and start racing.
36. Plan to go and see some fish, dolphins and other water creatures at the nearest aquarium.
37. Take a visit at the Botanical Garden and spend some quality time outdoors.
38. Go to a Carnival or Fair and enjoy the costumes, the popcorn and just have fun. You’ll find this dating place a little childish, but i can assure you it’s both fun as well as relaxing.

    

39. Find one of the tallest buildings around and go out on the terrace, enjoy the view and take some pictures of one of your best dating ideas.
40. Walk into a bookstore and start looking for books you think will interest you. This isn’t much fun nor does it have a lot of communication involved, but it’s a nice way of spending the afternoon. You could also walk into a music store and after taht go for a drink or something else.
41. Sit back and relax while you both read a complete horoscope book. Start chating about whether the sayings are true or not and build up on that.
42. Take a horse-drawn carriage ride.
43. Climb up the rooftop (or go to the balcony of your flat, or in the park) and lay back seeing who can count more stars, while taking about you plans together.
44. As a frosty dating idea, have a snow fight and after that try building together a snowman. After a while, when your hands are frozen, go home and make some hot chocolate and cuddle in front of the fire.
45. Have a photo date, that means go for a casual date using all these dating ideas and date places described here and make pictures very often. Romantic pics, funny ones, pictures of the scenery, anything that looks nice and after that go home and make a collage that you present your partner with next time you see each other.
46. Go to the country-side, take a hay ride, pet the animals, go sightseeing and after that come back home for hot tea and doughnuts.
47. Go some place quiet (lake, mountains if you can, these are considered some of the most romantic dating places) and watch the sunset.
48. Go buy some paint and paper sheets and start making a painting together. With brushes or using your own fingers. It will be fun and you’ll also have a painting reminding you of the great time you had making it.
49. Think about you living together and sketch your dream house or flat. Talk about what would you like to have, what kind of furniture, minimalistic or traditional design, about how will your living room look like, even if you don’t plan on moving together now or in the near future.
50. Make a lot of pudding or whipped cream and go outside and have a pudding fight, as one of the craziest dating ideas. You could wash yourself with water balloons or with a hose. Maybe you’ll both even end up in the shower, who knows?
51. Dye each other’s hair crazy colors using spray or temporary hair-dye.
52. Take the time, in front of your computer or audio player to decide about your favorite love songs and try picking the one you like the most as being your love song.

    

53. Rent an ATV (all-terrain vehicle) and drive it around the city or surroundings taking turns. It can be much fun, but make sure you wear helmets.
54. Try and find a local cartoonist and get your portrait done. You can find the in fairs or parks.
55. Have a pajama party with your closest friends or just for the two of you for a fun dating idea. Watch a movie, have some popcorn done, play a board game or a card game, or even truth or dare.
56. Take a class together. Check out the local community center, recreation center, library, or college for a class on painting, photography, sailing, dancing, computers, etc. Stop at a restaurant afterwards to share a dessert.
57. Go to a concert.
58. Go to a trade show.
59. Throw a (costume) party for you and your friends or just the two of you.
60. Rent a bicycle for two and go for a tour of the city. You can find them at local bicycles stores or at a university’s games centers.
61. This sounds like an strange dating place but at least try it: go to the park and feed the birds. Be sure to be prepared with some bread and talk about childhood and all those happy memories.
62. Go to church together and try to make it a habit. You could also enroll in discussion groups or other church meetings. Usually church helps couples grow closer.
63. Walk out your dog and have fun playing with him.
64. Take an airplane or helicopter ride around your city and don’t forget the camera. Search online or use yellow pahes to find airplanes rentals or rides.
65. Go scuba diving.
66. Go skydiving, it will be one memorable dating idea.
67. Pack your bags early in the morning and go fishing.
68. Go to the local court house and watch a trial in session.
69. Visit a town nearby.
70. Play hide and seek using your cars and then phone one another to tell a clue for the place you’re nearby (aids for health care center for example)
71. Buy electric little cars and race them through town, or bots for a nearby lake.
72. Go out for pizza. It’s a yummy dating idea.
73. Go watch car races.
74. Treat yourself and go to a spa together, relax, have a massage done.
75. Go explore a local flea market on weekends.

    

76. Go to a local Jazz event or find a local coffee shop that has a special jazz night.
77. Go to a playground in the evening after the kids are gone and play along.
78. Plan a date at a shooting range, take a small course first if none of you don’t know how to operate a gun and after that have fun aiming. Bet on who will have the first middle shot.
79. Go to a football game together.
80. Rent a hotel room. It will feel like a mini-vacation and you’ll see that this change was a good idea
81. Plan for an adventurous day, book a couple of hours with a trusty company and go bungee jumping. You’ll have lots of fun and afterwards you can share those great experiences and look at pictures.
82. Go watch a horse or dog race. You can even make bets and bid on who ever you think will win.
83. Plan a night out and just walk through the allies of a local park moonlight strolling and gazing at stars.
84. Go to a Chinese or Japanese restaurant and try the international cuisine. This way you’ll find out more about your partner’s food tastes and have a lovely conversation over dinner.
85. Another fun dating idea is getting a tent, packing some food, not forgetting the sleeping bags and going camping. Things can get really cozy in front of the fire and who knows how they’ll end up?
86. If one of you doesn’t have his car license yet, you could go to the driving range and start learning. Even if you have your license and haven’t drove in a while this is still a good idea.
87. Go visit each others parents if you don’t leave with them or you haven’t in a long while.
88. Try and find out when a local poetry club has its meetings and attend one. Afterwards discuss about wich one you liked most, about its author and what do you think about him.
89. Visit an art gallery.

    

90. Buy tickets to a drive-in.
91. Plan a glamor night out and take your date to a fancy high-class cocktail lounge.
92. Take a tour of one nearby University campus and remember how was school for you. Watch the students from down under a tree and share memories.
93. Walk into a library and try to check out as many books as you can, stop at the one that seem interesting and at the end present your partner with some nice words, each piece of text taken from another book.
94. Take your date to the Casino and try earning some extra dollars. Have fun.
95. Go shop watching and discover more about each other’s tastes, trying to search for future presents.
96. Take a walk to a chocolate store and be kids again for a little while. Pick the best candy or chocolate bars and feel happy.
97. remember those picture booths in large stores or metro stations. Stop at one of them, get inside and do a lot of funny, sexy, nasty faces. You’ll have nice memories that you can enjoy watching later at a cup of hot chocolate.

    

98. Get your laptop and find a wi-fi open area where you can both enjoy surfing online or watching a short movie outdoors.
99. Prepare yourself and make a tour of historical places in or near your town.
100. Visit a castle.
101. And the last dating idea is street-drawing, like when you were kids and made funny drawings on the sidewalk using colored chalk. It will be fun and you can also make pictures of your work and frame them.

I hope you all enjoyed these dating places and date ideas and I’m looking forward to find out how it all went when trying one of these, as well as your opinions about the list and if I accidentally left anything out. feel free to share your best dating ideas and special places by commenting bellow.

Remove

The first thing to do is to remove from your environment everything that reminds you of your ex-partner. Put his or her pictures away, remove that silly wallpaper you have of the two of you from your desktop, delete her telephone number from your mobile phone, and block her messenger id and e-mail address if you can. It’s very important to stop thinking of your ex-partner and start thinking of other things, this way being able to move over instead of falling into a depression.

Think

Second, figure out what went wrong. This way you are certain not to make the same mistake again with future partners. Also think of your relationship as of a beautiful vase and the break-up as breaking the vase. By getting back together you would only glue the vase back but it would not be as beautiful again, would it?

Go Out

Go out with your friends and keep occupied. This will keep your mind off the relationship and also by going out a lot you increase your chances of finding another partner. And also I’m certain you deserve some fun time out too.

Work Out

Work out. By doing so, you will keep in shape and so increasing your chances to get a date witch could lead to another relationship(who knows?). Also, the gym is a good place to meet new people so you might just find there what you are looking for.

Say

If you say let’s still be friends, you’d better mean it. It is extremely important to be truthful to yourself and also to your ex. Don’t say things you don’t mean. This way you will hurt them even more and I don’t think this is something anybody wants.

Well, in this article I am about to give you a few pointers in order for the above situation not to occur again.

The first thing you need to do is to take all the measures possible so that you feel good with yourself and confident. From now on when you decide to go out shopping for clothes don’t settle for anything less then what you absolutely adore. When buying anything to wear, don’t say to yourself: “this jacket is ok, it will do”. Buy the jacket that makes you say “perfect” when you put it on. This will make you feel more comfortable with the way you look. If you like your style, it will show and people around will like it too.

Go to the gym. This way you will feel good about the way your body looks, giving you confidence. Another plus is the fact that by working out the women around yo understand at a subconscious level that you are willing to put a lot of effort in obtaining what you desire. By doing this you will also be in a good shape which would put you, from this point of view, above about half of the people on this planet. Feeling better?

Apply the 10 second rule: when you see her don’t start to think about what to say or about what she will think of you but just go to her.This way you don’t get the time to think about the scenario of being rejected, therefor increasing your chances.

When you talk to her, don’t use pick up lines because she’s certainly heard them before. Be natural and start the conversation as normal as possible: ask her opinion on something or just introduce yourself. And one more thing: try to be funny.

The last thing: stop being afraid of rejection because when you go to talk to a woman, the worst thing that could happen is for her to refuse to engage in a conversation. Trust me, this is a simple NO: it’s not painful and it does not scar you for life. It does not even tell you that you are not her type. A NO only means it’s the wrong time or the wrong place. So go and talk to her. You have got nothing to lose.

First of all, let me agree with you on your idea about going to the movies. I wouldn’t advise on that either.

There are two very important things to think about regarding this date: first of all, the day must be about her. Second: it must be an interactive date and it must reflect your personality which by what you have written is really cool.

I don’t expect you to know where she wished to go in grade school and never got the chance, but if you do, that’s a good starting point.

If not, I would suggest an amusement park since they always tend to be fun and relaxing. As a plus, you know those booths where you can win teddy bears and stuff: You could try to win her something in exchange for a kiss. And certainly she will hold you tight on most of the rides. I guess you got the idea.

If this does not work for you, maybe you could take her to shoot some pool. Make it so the winner of every game gets a prize(you think of what that may be). After you’re done with that, you could take her to a coffee place where to talk and get to catch op a little bit. I’m sure she’s dying to tell you about what has happened in the last few years. And I know you want to listen
How are you on your skates? If you’re up for it, you could take her skating. This would really show her your athletic side: there aren’t many girls who don’t like a guy who can skate.

Feeling romantic? Got a lake near by? Invite her on a boat ride: just you and her in the middle of a lake. That is presuming she’s the romantic type too.

Try the ZOO. Even if it sounds like the place kids go, she might just love it.

Look, you’re not supposed to have a perfect first date. This rarely happens. In order for it to be perfect you should know what she really likes and dislikes. If you don’t, it’s important to show her that you’ve tried to come up with something nice and most important you must make her feel special by listening to what she says, looking her in the eyes, turning off your cell phone. To sum it up: that afternoon you’re going out on a date must be all about her.

And let me know how it went.

Valentine Love Songs have the power to make you think of your loved one, to try and make you feel like you were together and if they’re strong enough even make you pick up the phone and call your sweetie just saying I Love You. So i tried to make a list of beautiful Valentine Love Songs so you’ll have some options to chose from when wanting to hear a nice love mellody or preparing a musical background for making love.

Valentine Love Song #2: Elvis Presley - Love Me Tender

Valentines Love Song #3: Eric Clapton - Wonderful Tonight

Valentine Love Song #4: Celine Dion - Because You Loved Me

Check out the movie “The Notebook”. It’s a Valentine must.

Valentine Love Song #5: Michael Bolton - When a Man Loves a Woman

Valentine Love Song #6: Bryan Adams- Everything I Do

Valentine Love Song #7: Joe Cocker - N’Oubliez Jamais

What do you think of my selection of Valentine Love Songs? What song is you favourite, which one would you exclude and what love song would you add?

So don’t just go for the old rose and candies, give your loved one something special, make him/her feel special, make him feel like you spent all week thinking of new ideas and gifts for your valentine. Feeling special is all that counts. Belive me guys when i say girls don’t want big rings on their finger or shiny necklaces ( but if you have the money, don’t hesitate ), they want to feel special, they want to feel like they’ve been on your mind 24/7 making you think of romantic surprises and ingenious ideas. Same thing with most boys, too.

Valentine’s Day Idea # 1

Valentine Week: Instead of having just a Valentine Day, extend the holiday to the week before 14th of February. Try an make little gifts each day untill valentine, like an online Valentine card, a little teddy-bear, a small book, a pair of nice un-expensive earings, a funny desk lamp, a colored notebook or a diary, little things like these.

Why does it work? Because it extends Valentine’s Day, making your valentine feel special everyday and because it builds anticipation. Your sweetie can’t wait to see what you have prepared for the two of you on Valentine’s Day.

Valentine’s Day Idea # 2

Valentine Race: Wake your loved one on Valentine’s morning and after saying “I love you”, the magic 3 little words, tell him/her of the love race that you prepared a couple of days before. And starting from point zero, with a clue given by you, your sweetie must find the way through the house, or town to find clue after clue untill they reach the final love destination: You. You can set up valentine notes in their bedroom telling them where to go from there, speak with a common friend and make him hold the next love clue, send your loved one to the place you first saw eachother hiding a note in a tree, or giving it to the bartender, depending on the location, hiding another love clue under his car, or bike, and other things like these. Maybe you would like to send your special one on a plasure hunt on Valentine’s Day, going from the spa, to the restaurant to you in a hotel room.

Why does it work? Because everyone like a race, they can’t help wondering what would be the final prize, because it raises your adrenaline levels and that makes you feel more inlove then ever.

Valentine’s Day Idea # 3

Most of you maybe like romantic and quiet times together but because the phone always rings, friends or family always come uninvited, it just seems you can’t get that perfect time only for the two of you. So, try considering going to the mountains, or just planning a trip anywhere where it will be just the two of you. Or even stay in town, but take the time to relax, to go shopping toghether for your valentine’s day gifts, have brunch at a local restaurant, maybe go play tennis or some other fun game, go to a movie or play pool or bowling but remember: the key of this idea is to have at least two days (think of the night between) only for you. This should make you partner feel very special and it works because you focus all your attention on your valentine.

The 3 Valentine’s Day Ideas above are just examples i thought off so i could give you some clues. But listen to me now! You don’t have to search the internet to find Valentine’s Day ideas or gifts. No one knows better that yourself the true feelings you have for your valentine. So, to sum it up, here are the basics:

1. Be Original.

2. Make your partner feel Special

3. Give your valentine your whole time, not just bits.

4. If you try to impress, more chances say that you’ll succeed.

What do you plan to do for Valentine’s day? Have you given any thought on how to surprise your loved one? If you have any questions please use the comment form below or in case you need advice, click on the big orange-button-girl-doctor on the right and you’ll have an answer in just a second We’ll be glad if you would share ideas about your plans for Valentine’s Day with us so be sure to leave a comment below!

If you’re wondering how to make the first date just great I have some advices for you but before starting to give you the tips, maybe it would be better to tell you that most women are not attracted by the car you drive or by the size of your wallet (well, there are exceptions too) but by the way you make them feel. If you succeed in making them feel special and very important for you, then you start having your own place in their heart.

You must be able to transmit these things from your first date. How can you do this?

Simple: Before meeting her be sure to turn off your mobile phone.This lets her know that in the time the two of you are together no other person is more important then her. Putting the phone in silent mode is not an option because by doing so you will keep looking if you have any missed calls. So first rule: NO PHONES ALLOWED.

If you go to a restaurant or coffee shop, be sure to take the seat that lets you look directly at her. If the seat is also facing the wall this lets her know that she is the only one you want to see and that you don’t care about anything around when you’re with her. Rule number two: ALL EYES ON HER.

When the two of you are talking, look directly in her eyes instead of trying to determine the size of her bra or trying to imagine her naked. This way you might just get to admire her body later. Rule number three: THE FACE IS ABOVE THE NECK, NOT BELOW.

When she is taking to you pay attention. Ask questions about her, try to make the conversation mostly about her. I know you’re dying to tell her about your great adventures in the World of Warcraft or about your latest night out with your friends but don’t do it for now.Rule number four: SHE’S THE SUBJECT OF YOUR CONVERSATION.

When choosing the place to go, don’t go for the most expensive place in town. She will sense that you are trying too hard. Also, when complimenting her, stick to the way she looks and the way she is dressed. Be sure not to overdo it because she will spot this and think that you are just trying to get under her skin. Rule number five: DO NOT OVERDO IT.

Follow these five rules and you might just be lucky enough to get a second date. Also, by the end of the date be sure to know the color of her eyes and at least another thing that she likes: her favorite animal or her hobbies.