Celebrity Dirty Laundry

I think everyone has wondered at some point in their relationship how can they improve communication, how can they make their partner happy or what must they do to deepen the commitment and love between eachother. I’m guessing you aren’t any excepion. I myself have passed through difficult moments in witch i was wondering what was i doing wrong and how can i make things better. I don’t want to provide you with a “to do” sheet and expect you thinking all will be solved. The words below are destined to improve the health of your relationship and make you and your partner happier together.

Love Tip #1: Take sides

I’ve been there! Nothing is more frustrating than watching your partner, the one you love, joke with, spend the most time with, the one you trust, take side against you. Even if it’s with friends, family or work buddies, it’s damn upsetting. You felt like a team and now what? The team is gone?

The truth is you feel relieved that someone is always there to take your side, even if you’re not 100% right. There is nothing more important than being there for your partner when he or she needs you. And taking sides, in an argue, in a joke, in a proposal is just the time your loved one wants you to defend him.

Of course, picking sides isn’t always about defending, it’s about bragging also. About reminding others how nice your partner is, how loving, how romantic or how intelligent and about your partner’s recent accomplishments. Why? Because if you do remind them how good your partner is for you, they will start to believe that and picture him or her differently, as well as you, plus the fact your partner will be much happier knowing you tell most people about your strong relationship. Think about it… wouldn’t you be pleased to find out your boss told his supperiors about your wonderful work? That’s kinda like the feeling your partner will get when knowing you did that.

Love Tip #2: Show the Love

First of all, don’t be afraid to express what you are feeling, thinking you will sound like a woosy. Second of all, even if you don’t find the need to express your love at some given point in time, your partner will be most likely surprised and glad you decided to do so. So start showing the love! Don’t waste the time spent with your partner. Maybe later you’ll think you could have done much more than you did for your relationship to be at its true potential, so make every moment count.

Tell your partner you love him, don’t be afraid of words! That’s for sure the biggest mistake. Everyone wants to hear how special they are for you and how much they mean to you. Find a way to not let a day pass without you doing that (of course you shouldn’t do that every half an hour). It’s not so hard to leave an email, a note, a message and even a love letter saying you want to be by your partner’s side. Say it!

Love Tip #3: Surprise!

Making surprises , little gestures of love, like a nice pencil, a flower or a delicious candy, along with a few loving words, remind your partner that you were thinking of him or her, that you wanted to make a surprise, that you brought a smile upon his face. Little gifts of love, little surprises like making a special dinner, bringing breakfast to bed, living a “love you” note under the pillow, sending a funny-sexy sms, making a picture of the two of you and have it framed, planning a surprise one day trip and other things like these make your relationship stronger, happier, unique and fun.

Love Tip #4: Do Spontaneous and Unexpected Things

By doing spontaneous and unexpected things not only that you surprise your partner but you regenerate that “new love” feeling again and again. Don’t just do the same old stuff, experiment! Agree from the start with things you normally would have needed to think over for a little. Come up with new ways of doing stuff together, of kissing, of making love, of talking, of spending time together. Show your partner who you are, be creative, be spontaneous. Try new things and places and combine planning with out of the blue ideas that will boost your relationship sky high.

Love Tip #5: Be Honest

Many relationships have a dose of honesty but very little ones are 100% sincere. Besides the usually advice of not lying to your partner, try to consider honesty as “no faking”. Be sincere with your partner and tell what you feel instead of holding back, thinking that this will make him or her want you more.

Really enjoy the time spent together and try to relate to your partner. Regard him or her as your best friend and speak your mind. Don’t see him just as your boyfriend and don’t treat her just like your your girlfriend. Act like best mates, regard one another like that and involve yourself in each other’s lives.

Love Tip #6: What’s the Problem?

Whenever there’s a problem spit it out. Don’t hold it inside thinking it will pass. It won’t!. Don’t argue, clear your voice, be extremely calm and speak up your mind in a very clear way. Don’t say: “I feel neglected.”, but give a reason, the true reason that powers the problem you have and afterwards say how does that make you feel, considering the 3 “w”: “when”, “what”, ‘why” and a solution that implies the both of you: “I don’t really like it that in the past 2 weeks you have been working very late at the office and haven’t had much time for our daily chores and also me. I kinda feel neglected and i was wondering how can we fix this“. Learn to state the problem and speak up clearly so your partner understands what it’s all about.

Love Tip #7: Passion

Without feeling passionately towards your partner the communication, sex, intimacy, and ultimate closeness will not be there, which in turn leaves each one wanting/needing more from the relationship than they are getting. Friends are just friends… husbands or wives should be in love and life partners… that doesn’t happen without feeling passion for the other person. So learn here at Love-Guider how to stay in love and be sure that you reignite the passion after you’ve went offline.

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